5 Reasons Women Don’t like Nice Guys (Yahoo News)

Full article: http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/5-reasons-women-dont-nice-guys-150300638.html?

What do I think? Here they are –

1. It’s hard for some of us to trust a Nice Guy. 

No, I do not think that the more trustworthy a guy seems, the harder it is for the women to believe that the guy is as good as he seems. It all boils down to how the women is brought up, not just the whole dating thing, but her surroundings as well. (Duh, if I were to see jackass guys everyday I’d think think that guys are jerks by nature and those who are nice are just acting to get in my pants…or skirt…or dress.)

However, I do agree with this sentence in the article ‘women get kind of jaded about the whole Nice Guy thing (after dating too many jerks)’. I’ve never really dated guys…just had one really horrendous relationship (don’t think it’s even counted but never mind that) and now I’m in a stable, mature relationship that I HOPE will last.

Trusting guys (or anyone for that matter) isn’t easy. We just have to observe (in depth please, not see, look, judge and that’s that.) and come up with our own conclusions. Time? Of course it takes time.

2. Bad Boys care about themselves — a lot — and it makes us think they care about us

To all females (or ANYONE) who think this way…here’s a picture for you:

No, really. Y U NO SEE THAT THIS IS JUST BEING SELFISH?! Those are potential MCPS. I’m not saying that all badass dudes are like that, i’m just saying they COULD be which isn’t the same as saying they ARE. I COULD have cut myself and be an emo-goth chick but I DIDN’T. (Sorry for rambling but I have something against people who jump to conclusions too easily)

Well, I know we aren’t mind-readers by nature but still…unless you’re a submissive, demure to-be-tai-tai or housewife material. These sort of guys are just gonna get on your nerves for being too dominating or overbearing.

Seriously, why do you females out there think these guys are cool anyways? I don’t get it.

3. Nice Guys have their shit together. Bad Boys don’t. Women like a challenge.

Yes. That’s all I have to say. O RLY (Oh, Really?) Wait till you have a wish to settle down and start a family. I challenge all you females out there to do it. Of course, if you do succeed in the challenge, I shall bow down in defeat.

4. Some women are afraid of intimacy. The one thing the Bad Boy rarely does is want to become intimate.

Then don’t enter a relationship. What’s the point of being in a relationship if you don’t wish to be intimate with your partner? Love and intimacy are EXTREMELY important in a relationship.

5. Some women suffer low self-esteem.

These women need help. They don’t need a bad boy who treats her badly. They need PROFESSIONAL help. I myself was a victim and I’m really glad I sought professional help and not let myself be left to continue in the vicious cycle. But then again, it’s up to you.

In conclusion…

This is a rather stereotypical article in my opinion.

 

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